A misconception people have about me is i guess i have a rbf (a resting bitch face), my friends have told me, before us meeting and becoming friends that i gave a vibe of not wanting to be talked to, that i looked like a bitch or i looked mean which in my defensive im nice, i just held up a little protective barrier for myself because I didn’t want to mess with or bullied again like how i was in elementary school. So in middle schools, boys who try to tease me so i ended up giving them a mean mugged face and telling them to leave me alone and soon enough  it made them uncomfortable to talk to me, but they also said they had walk up and talk to me, they said i was the nicest person i could ever me and that im really sweet which i think that does describe me, like i do hold up a protective boarder but because to protect myself, like if you come at me with negative vibes i will do the same energy towards you so i am nice but dont take it for granted. 

I think it’s good to have one because bullies are everywhere and they look for easy targets to pick one and honestly just wanna ruin your day, and it doesn’t stop in school, it happens in the real world too. 

For an example,Me and my family went to a dodgers game, (we are dodgers fans) with my brother mickey’s girlfriend family(so are they) and we went to go find our seat so we can get settle and get food and mind you, I am fat, so is my sister, brother and a little bit of my brothers girlfriend, we grew up a fat family so we all know how it is to get picked up for our weight, so back to the story, After finding our seats,we went to get food, i think we got nachas,dumplings, hot dogs etc. we didn’t get crazy cause we are still learning healthy eating habits we are also being mindful on portion control.(also we didnt eat anything all day) now my brother was the last one to come back and he has gotten himself some nachas, now that’s when we notice a guy, who’s been also heavenly drinking and is not even a baseball fan (it seem he just went for his girlfriend because she was a dodgers fan)  and during the game, he would scream and i understand yelling for your teams but clearly this guy was just screaming into my ear, he didn’t even care for the other team he just wanted the dodgers to loose and he would also lean forward to yell, while he is also staring at my sister and made a comment loud enough to be heard when he squaw my brother consume the nachos, he said “i would never do that to my body” mind you, this guy consume like 5 cans of cheap beer, he isn’t a body builder nor was reading healthy food so it was clear to see he was trying to start somthing, when we left we were talking about him and i said “yeah you would never consume that but you would consume alcohol and get you a beer belly, nasty FUCK” and also saying “you keot making fat commments but kept staring at my sister up and down like you wanted her tf” and after we just let it go, but thats why at first i put a boarder so strangers know dont mess with me and can just leave me alone/