My brother, ever since he got embarrassed and had stop talking to everyone in the house (expect for my dad)  and now he just sits on his bed in the room that we no longer shared because everytime im in the room (me, my sister my dad and him share that room) he had made it known he has a problem with me in the room so I don’t feel comfortable nor safe> everytime im around he would mumble fatass bitch or just sigh aggressively and so i hate living here with my brother, so I’m definitely about moving out soon(or at least thinking about it) but what gets me frustrating is me going to school, struggling to do homework while also going to work after and then going back and then being tired and then seeing my brother, playing games taking all the ice and food and just rotting away on the bed which makes me so upset and more upset because my dad told him to get a job yet i know his ass isnt looking for one, i dont see my dad taking him to do interviews or go look out nor calling places like thats the part that really frustrated me more like i cant with him getting to relax, do nothing, worry about nothing at age 25 fucking years old while my 21 yeasr old is struggling to save up money for a car and going to school, going to work and finding the place to drive,. He dosent even has his driver’s license and yet this mother fucker get to don nothing, he dosent even clean and i hate walking into the room because it smells,. He doesn’t shower nor brush that damn matted hair, so I hate him for using his mental illness as an excuse to not do anything. I know he suffer from a neglectful childhood with divorce parents, its obvious he suffer the most out of our parents divorce and it clear to see his adult life suffers from it, and its not like i dont feel sorry for him, i do but thats before his mental breakdown, because before he was actually trying but now it change because when he didnt talk to anyone, we try to show him our love, it was around xmas when we got him gifts yet he threw them out so that right there was upsetting, my sister took it harder because she bought him wh\at he needed, clothes and for him to do that as a grown ass man was so petty. So the last amount of pity we have for him went out the window because he didnt tried hard enough and decided to be stuck in his past and wants pit for himself.  So we are wanting him to yelp himself.